I’m not referring to valid emergencies or tragedies such as a house-fire, a serious medical injury, or being the victim of a crime.
I’m talking about a Domme who compromises her own principles because she won’t (or is convinced that she can’t) pay for something herself…
1. Not allowing a their child to participate in extra-curricular activities such as the Girl Scouts, playing team sports, or the development of a musical or artistic talent. I may not be a parent, but even I comprehend how important creative development and teamwork skills are.
2. Not traveling to see immediate family or not attending an important family function. It seems to me that if something is THAT important why not pay for it yourself? Especially when it’s something that could have been planned for in advance: pay for it yourself and then have a slave reimburse the cost.
3.Not paying a bill. Seriously? You think you’re mature enough to manage a slave’s life but you can’t take care of yourself? Ugh.
*****Most common excuse*****
I can’t afford it.
****One more example****
Just coming across as a sad-sack. The classic: “Woe is me, all the slaves here suck and I guess I’ll just go crawl under a rock and be alone because none of you are good enough to be near me anyway.” That one is probably My biggest pet peeve because I just don’t understand how the Domme can NOT realize that this just makes her look like a pathetic lump. Of course a Domme can have a bad day, we all do, however, if slaves or potential slaves are not crawling to you, chances are the reason isn’t because they all suck. It’s probably something much deeper, and most likely it has to do with you. Look into it.
Take out a new credit card
Sell stuff you don’t need on ebay or have a yard sale~~ hey how about one of the gajillion pair of shoes?
Pawn something~~do you really need those diamond earrings that you got from some flybynight draining session?
Borrow the money/take out a bank loan
Anything but let yourself hit the bottom of the begging barrel.
***Last but not least***
Sob story posts are not attractive. 99% of the time I have noticed that they only get compounded~ as in: “Waaagh I didn’t get what I wanted so now I’m going to complain some more“. If you’re depressed, it’s probably not because a slave didn’t buy you something~ chances are, it’s something much deeper. Look into it.